by Scott Kaczorowski

What follows is a strong statement. But hopefully not a controversial one. The single most important thing that any Christian needs to understand is how deeply God loves them in Christ. Paul prays that the Ephesians will have an understanding of God’s deep love:

For this reason I bow my knees before the Father,from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. (Ephesians 3:14-19)

There is a connection here between deeply knowing and understanding the love of God and being “filled with all the fullness of God” (v. 19).1 There are times when God gives an overwhelming sense of his love to His children. Perhaps a few examples from history will spur us on to seek the same.2

The 18th century New England pastor Jonathan Edwards wrote of a woman in his congregation during the beginning of what would become known as the Great Awakening:

There is a pious woman in this town that is a very modest bashful person, that was moved by what she heard of the experiences of others earnestly to seek to God to give her more clear manifestations of himself… and God answered her request, and gradually gave her more and more of a sense of his glory and love, which she had with intermissions for several days, till one morning …she had it to a more than ordinary degree, and it prevailed more and more till towards the middle of the day, till her nature began to sink under it, as she was alone in the house; but there came somebody into the house, and found her in an unusual, extraordinary frame. She expressed what she saw and felt to him; it came to that at last that they raised the neighbors, [for] they were afraid she would die; I went up to see her and found her perfectly sober and in the exercise of her reason, but having her nature seemingly overborne and sinking, and when she could speak expressing in a manner that can’t be described the sense she had of the glory of God… it seemed to me [that] if God had manifested a little more of himself to her she would immediately have sunk and her frame dissolved under it.3

Iain Murray describes a similar experience of George Whitefield, one of Edwards’ contemporaries, who wrote of himself: “I myself was so overpowered with a sense of God’s love, that it almost took away my life.”4 Murray also recounts the words of the 19th century evangelist Dwight Moody:

I was crying all the time that God would fill me with His Spirit. Well, one day, in the city of New York–Oh, what a day–I cannot describe it, I seldom refer to it; it is almost too sacred and experience to name.  …I can only say that God revealed himself to me, and I had such an experience of His love that I had to ask Him to stay His hand.  I went to preaching again. The sermons were not different: I did not present any new truths; and yet hundreds were converted. I would not now be placed back where I was before that blessed experience if you should give me all the world…”5

There are some similar threads that run through these accounts: (1) These saints experienced a deep sense of the love of God. (2) The sense was so strong it physically overpowered them. (3) They read like what the answer to Paul’s prayer in Ephesians 3:14-19 might look like. (4) In the case of the woman and Moody at least, they were asking God to grant more of an experience of Himself.

So if our hearts are cold and empty and lacking an experiential understanding of the love of God, we can ask. If the single most important thing that any Christian needs to understand is how deeply God loves them in Christ, then if we truly get the love of God right, everything else in our Christian walk will fall into place.  If we lack understanding of the love of God, everything else in our Christian life will be out of wack (to varying degrees). This is the line in the sand.  The love of God.

Footnotes:
1cf. Iain H. Murry, Pentecost–Today? The Biblical Basis for Understanding Revival (Edinburgh: Banner of Truth Trust, 1998), 90-91, which I rediscovered after writing this line.
2cf. Murry, p. 91—but if I was following him, I was not conscious of it when I wrote this.
3Jonathan Edwards, The Works of Jonathan Edwards, Volume 4: The Great Awakening, ed. C. C. Goen (New Have: Yale University Press, 1972), 105-106.
4Luke Tyerman, Life of George Whitefield (London: Hodder and Stoughton, 1876), Vol. 1, 386. As quoted in Murry, 94.
5W. R. Moody, Life of Dwight L. Moody (London: Morgan and Scott, n.d.), 135. As quoted in Murry, 98.

by Scott Kaczorowski

In a recent Falling in Love Again with Your Lord lecture, Laurie Aker spoke about what it means/looks like to truly seek after God.  One area where she applied this to the ladies was submission to their husbands–even if they don’t agree or understand or think it makes any sense.

Men, we can translate this into the biblical injunction on our end as well: Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her…” (Eph. 5:25).1  Even when we don’t think we understand them!  And we need to love them in the way that they understand and receive love.2  (Anyone embracing the concept of “love languages” à lá books like The Five Love Languages should be nodding in approval right now…)  We get this concept clearly at a linguistic level.  If you say, “I love you” to someone in English but they don’t speak English, we have expressed our love to them but they have not received that expression of love.  We can forget that this applies not only to the linguistic realm but also to our actions.3  We need to communicate by our words and our actions in ways our wives receive and understand love.

Here is where it gets sticky.  She is probably not going to come right out and say, “Honey, I need you to love me in this way…”  Men, if you have a wife like that… praise God for her!  For most men though the cues will probably be more subtle.  There will be cues.  You will just need to be actively looking for them.  This may sound like hard work, and for some men it may be.  But we must if we would love our wives as Christ loved the church.

Footnotes:
1It was suggested to me that I make these points for the men.
2On this point, see footnote 1.
3The I had the idea for this example the morning I wrote this, upon further reflection I may have read this in the literature previously.  It would be odd if someone hadn’t made the point this way before.

Thistlebend Quiet eMoment

by Laurie Aker

Focus Scripture: Luke 6:12-16 ESV

12 In these days he went out to the mountain to pray,
and all night he continued in prayer to God.  
13 And when day came, he called his disciples  
and chose from them twelve, whom he named apostles: 
14 Simon, whom he named Peter, and Andrew his brother,  
and James and John, and Philip, and Bartholomew,  
15 and Matthew, and Thomas, and James the son of Alphaeus,  
and Simon who was called the Zealot,
16 and Judas the son of James, and Judas Iscariot,  
who became a traitor.
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Would you take a extra amount of time to pray today
after you read this eMoment?

Would you humbly come before the Lord
and ask Him to meet you right where you are?
Whether you have been praying faithfully
and diligently for decades
or have never learned to pray
for more than five minutes a few days a week,
would you allow Him to speak to your heart?

Would you lay yourself before Him and say like the psalmist,
“But I am a worm and not a man…” (Psalm 22:6).

No matter what you have done,
or how you have prayed,
would you say with Isaiah:

Isaiah 35:3
Strengthen the weak hands  
and make firm the feeble knees.

TAKING GOD’S WORD TO HEART

Seek the Lord and ask Him to do what only He can do.
Ask Him to bring a fresh wind, a fresh fire, a new thing.
Ask Him.
Cry out to Him.
God Most High!
God of your salvation.
If He has brought you from death to life,
He can certainly bring new life and new intimacy
and new faithfulness and new power to your prayer life!

Psalm 57:2
I cry out to God Most High,  
to God who fulfills his purpose for me.

Psalm 88:1
O LORD, God of my salvation;  
I cry out day and night before you.

Psalm 142:1
With my voice I cry out to the LORD;
with my voice I  plead for mercy to the LORD.

Psalm 40:1-4
1 I waited patiently for the LORD;
he inclined to me and heard my cry.
2 He drew me up from the pit of destruction,
out of the miry bog,
and set my feet upon a rock,
making my steps secure.
3 He put a new song in my mouth,

a song of praise to our God.
Many will  see and fear,
and put their trust in the LORD.   
4 Blessed is the man who makes
the LORD his trust,
who does not turn to the proud,
to those who go astray after a lie!

MEDITATE or MEMORIZE

Write out the following verse from Luke 6 and recite it 3 times.
Take it with you throughout the day.

12 In these days he went out to the mountain to pray,
and all night he continued in prayer to God.   

PRAYER

Father, please cut through the excuses that we make
to not pray. Draw us into your presence.
And hear our cry.

In His hands for His glory,

Laurie
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