Choose to Stand

by Susan Sampson

“Each day as a mother, you have a choice to make.  Are you going to follow your own desires, the world, your fears, or will you follow the Lord?  The choices you make will influence the choices your children make.” — from Falling in Love Again with Your Children

“Among them we too all formerly lived in the lusts of our flesh, indulging the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, even as the rest” (Ephesians 2:3, NASB). 

“And if it is disagreeable in your sight to serve the LORD, choose for yourselves today whom you will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served which were beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living; but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15, NASB).

Every minute of every day we must choose.  Will we serve self or Christ?  Will we put the tennis balls in first or the rice?  Will we take a stand for Jesus or sit in the seat of scoffers?  Will we train or entertain?  Will we live for the temporal or eternal?

This is so hard for me.  Apart from Christ we can do none of this.  Apart from the grace of God we wouldn’t even want to do any of this!

My flesh does not want to stand.  My flesh prefers to sit.  Actually, my flesh prefers to lay in my bed.

As I read the Ephesians Scripture above this week I was convicted by how much I still indulge the desires of the flesh and of the mind.  I wrote a note in my book next to it saying, “I do not want to do this any more — Lord, help me repent of my sin and turn in faith to you, looking to Christ — my helper, my friend, my bridegroom, my Savior and Lord.”

We’ve been saved from this life.  Listen now to verses 4 and 5: “But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in our transgressions, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved)…” (NASB)

Because of the Gospel I want to stand.  I want to teach my children to stand.  I know this is impossible, but I believe by faith that with God all things are possible.

The Lord has provided us incredible tools from this week’s lecture!  Let us not give into our flesh, the enemy, or the world.  Let us set aside our pet projects which have no eternal value and invest in our children trusting the Lord to provide all we need!

Let us take time this summer, before school starts while we have extra time and choose to serve the Lord instead of our flesh.  Let us cry out to Him for His grace to be able to do this.  Let us not squander this divine opportunity!  Lord, have mercy on us!  Enable us to build our house on the Rock and not the sinking sand!

Father, please give us a holy and reverent fear of the Lord.  The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.  Please train us by your grace “to say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives” now (Titus 2:11-12, NIV).  We want our actions, Lord, to match our words of devotion.  We want to be doers of the Word and not just hearers.  Please do in our hearts and in our children’s hearts what we cannot.  We look to you and your unfailing love.  We look to you to enable us to stand and teach our children to stand.  Thank you for loving us right where we are!  In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Reconnecting with our First Love

by Dottie Ryan

“Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might.  And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart” (Deut. 6:4-6).

He is our First Love!  He must be our First Love.  Is He yours?

If we have let other people, places, or things take a seat in front of the Lord, it is necessary to return to Him who first loved us so that we could love Him.  He will not share His place in our hearts.  He must be our all in all.  He must be,  if we are going to walk forward in love for Him and those around us.  We are all on assignment from the “Captain of the Lord of Hosts.” Our life is not our own if we belong to the Lord. Yet, as this week’s study showed us, no one is able to love God without God’s help and His grace.  We just can not muster this up. Sounds strange, doesn’t it?  We are commanded to love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, and might (Deut. 6:5). And further commanded to love our neighbor as ourselves (Mark 12:31).  Yet we can’t do this without the Lord.  The love of God is from God.  He is the maker of our hearts.  We have nothing to give that has not come from Him.  Isn’t that just like a loving God?  He basically says, “You must love me and you must love your neighbor.  O, and by the way, you can’t do that on your own. So let me give you the love you will need to allow you to love me back and love your neighbor.”  He provides what He requires!  O, Amazing Grace! O, what a Savior!

This week’s study has us “Going Up the Mountain” to spend time alone with God Most High.  It asks us to think about the reasons we find ourselves either unwilling or unable to do this.  I have my own list of reasons (excuses) for which I must admit and confess and repent from.  I am certain that if you are finding difficulty in praying and spending time with your Lord, you have your own list.  I hear a still small voice, even as I type this, saying: Conviction, not condemnation. There is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Rom. 8:1).  But grace does not give us license to be comfortable or exercise freedom to the extent that these would keep us away from relationship with God and through that, Him equipping us to go out and complete the assignments He has for us.  As Paul would say, “May it never be!” (cf. Rom. 6:2, NASB).

We, as Laurie points out in Day 3, need to get away from “the earthly” on a daily basis in order to live with “the heavenly” in view.  We need to go up to the mountain top…in the midst of the trials — with eternal purposes in mind at every moment — and pray.  Be deliberate in doing this — in praying for others — in finding Scriptures to pray over the people in our lives: our family, spouse, children, friends, co-workers- – ourselves.  Everyone needs the gospel. Do we really know this?  You see, prayer and the gospel go hand in hand.  Prayer lays the groundwork for the gospel (Eph. 6:18-20).  Without the gospel — without Jesus — death and separation are permanent — eternal.  O God, give us eyes to see.  Help us persevere in prayer — in relationship with you so that your will can be done on earth as it is in heaven.

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God’s Power in Weakness

by Dottie Ryan

We are now more than half-way through our Fearless Study. And I wonder if we are able to say that we have stepped forward in faith? Even one step on the water?

We learned that we have been deliberately sent into the storm by a Sovereign God — who is a good God.  I’ll bet that most of us have witnessed “the wind and the waves” as they have tossed our boat back and forth — beating against our lives through our circumstances.  Feeling fear, and possibly abandonment, we have probably honestly had to ask, “Lord, Are You in the Storm?” And if we are real honest, we have come face-to-face with our inability to calm our own storms or even take that step of faith out on to the water, without our focus being totally on Him — on Jesus, the only One who can rescue — the only One who can “keep [us] from falling” (Jude 1:24, NIV). In that, I pray we have all been able to acknowledge and confess, “O Lord, I Am Weak.”  What a blessed triumphant victory if we have come to that place in our walk with the Lord these past four weeks because, it is all about Him — His Power is made perfect in weakness (2 Cor.12:9).

We need you, Lord.  We can not do this on our own.  We are weak. Necessarily so. Thus we “boast all the more gladly of [our] weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon [us]” (2 Cor. 12:9).

Did you get that?  Do we really get this?  His grace is sufficient for us.  His power (to transform lives including our own) is made manifest by us being weak — being insufficient — relying fully on Him for everything.  And here’s what really excites me about this. Since it is all about Him, as we boast about our inabilities He is glorified, and in our “letting everyone know just how weak we are without Him,” His power rests upon us.  Now, we can go about doing the business of the Father.

Do we dare?

I am praying that we will all come to that place of ‘knowing’ who we are — and who He is!  That we will step out a little further on the water this week, laying aside our reasons for not spending time with Him.  Being willing to be uncomfortable, to “lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely” (Heb. 12:1). . . realizing the storms will come and that they will be fierce at times. But also knowing that we are never alone.

Faith, not fear.  Focused on Him — “looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith” (Heb. 12:2). And resting in His ability. Not ours.

“Blessed are the poor in spirit…blessed are those who mourn… blessed are the meek…” (Matthew 5:3-5). Blessed are we who understand that we “have nothing to bring to the Lord but our sins and our human frailty” — for ours is the Kingdom of Heaven — for we shall be comforted — we shall inherit the earth.  All because of what God did for us through the finished work of Christ. So when we cry out to Him for mercy, confess and agree with Him concerning our sins, and repent, we know He hears our cry!  We know He does.  He’s our Father.  And He extends his scepter to us and tells us to boldly “draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need” (Heb. 4:16). And He has never let us down.  He never will.  He is faithful.  And He saves us to the uttermost.

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